tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post2327110389419193485..comments2024-03-28T13:10:54.477+08:00Comments on Health Freak Mommy: Furious!Health Freak Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16667292699809775619noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-46874849983174280462009-08-13T13:16:05.984+08:002009-08-13T13:16:05.984+08:00seriously shireen, i would've put up a fight w...seriously shireen, i would've put up a fight with my maid if she ever DARE to hurt my kids!! it's too dangerous to keep her at home, let alone allow her to handle yr kids without supervision!! <br />get a replacement immediately or daily part-time maid, good luck!!jacsshttp://www.jacss.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-28519507633038690772009-08-10T16:52:03.986+08:002009-08-10T16:52:03.986+08:00it is reli not easy to find a good maid, sigh... i...it is reli not easy to find a good maid, sigh... i wonder wen onli we do not need to rely on maidaliciahttp://www.thoofamily.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-80385219292195276942009-08-10T15:26:26.866+08:002009-08-10T15:26:26.866+08:00tot initially d girls like her? *sigh*tot initially d girls like her? *sigh*Chinneeqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14685808034935435030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-27404861510265769502009-08-10T12:06:20.927+08:002009-08-10T12:06:20.927+08:00Oh that's one maid gone bad! I agree with the ...Oh that's one maid gone bad! I agree with the rest. Change maid and don't go to the same maid agency. I feel fir you after so many bouts of useless maids.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-6835843465400296422009-08-10T10:19:33.114+08:002009-08-10T10:19:33.114+08:00Shireen, I saw a video clips a few months back. It...Shireen, I saw a video clips a few months back. It was circulated in my office through emails. It was bout a maid torturing the toddler. When I saw this type of video, my heart was broken and I felt so cold. So, please find a replacement immediately, or you can try the suggestion of the Anonymous in your comments above, about getting a part time cleaner. I didn't have maid before, and I wouldn't want any maid as well. Sorry to say that, they are sickening one.Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-4985524664681270382009-08-09T16:51:34.895+08:002009-08-09T16:51:34.895+08:00Shireen, i can feel you! Stubborn, lying and more ...Shireen, i can feel you! Stubborn, lying and more lying!! I think i did not blog about my maid scold my sons and she thought i didn't hear it, when i question her, she will again answer me in loud tone "NO!!!" The way she scold like i scold my sons. I told her, they are not your sons, you got no permission to scold my sons in loud tone, sometime she treat my sons rough too! Now, at least i'm happy, no more "personal maid" means maid only for my sons, now we got two maids at home, doing most house chores and cooking and one of them will help me overlook my sons when i'm at work. When i'm back home i will take over the task. Although i feel a bit tired now, some of my things like i will shower my boys now instead of asking the maid and wash my sons clothes and my own and some little tiny things. But at least i feel more happy, no more angry. <br /><br />So far the new cambo maid is "doing good" and i hope she will keep her good work, and my sons like her, most important she like kids and she got patience, and now she is helping me when i'm at work. But like i said, still too early to judge her work, but so far i'm happy with her, hope no more issue from her.<br /><br />Good luck & all the best on finding the new maid!! Hope you get a good one! Like what i told my sil, now really hard to find good maid. Maid good with house work and more "seng mok" but like to run away, those a bit blur and always "kek sei" you, cannot do work, but will stay and not run away. :(Annie Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961122137043440982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-14391728213087882862009-08-07T23:45:12.225+08:002009-08-07T23:45:12.225+08:00I would sent her back immediately. Intolerable. A ...I would sent her back immediately. Intolerable. A lot of them are mad. In my hometown, there was a case where the maid burned down the house with 2 teenage kids locked inside their room while their parents were overseas, both kids did not survive.<br /><br />I know a lot of mothers with 3 kids can also survive without maid. I am already maidless for the last 4 months... and don't plan to have another maid. <br /><br />If I really need a helper... I think i'll follow no.2 suggestion, part time local maid.... with the agent fee that u need to pay plus the basic salary plus food n accomodation.. i think it'll work out more or less the same. No contract to tied u up...Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06189381379354773761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-19196404842845624192009-08-07T23:30:14.360+08:002009-08-07T23:30:14.360+08:00I second what other mummies have to say.. get a ch...I second what other mummies have to say.. get a change of your current maid... and hope your agent do give you a good one this time... or maybe consider those part time ones that come helping you on daily basis.. All the best.. and take care!Cynful Pleasurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03878087629964228607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-25606069720545436292009-08-07T22:50:47.019+08:002009-08-07T22:50:47.019+08:00Wah! I would ave gotten the broomstick out and wha...Wah! I would ave gotten the broomstick out and whacked her!!! How dare she!!!Big Pumpkinhttp://www.mamapumpkin.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-10382308752329385202009-08-07T19:21:03.036+08:002009-08-07T19:21:03.036+08:00Adoi, what a horrible maid. These are the kind of ...Adoi, what a horrible maid. These are the kind of maids who ended up abusing kids when their employers go to work. Good that you're with your kids all the time. <br />Better 'chao yao yu' her asap. If I were you, I would have given her a big slap for hitting my kids, you're already kind enough not to lift a finger.Leenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15273833291914580320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-65978537138698705192009-08-07T18:59:41.278+08:002009-08-07T18:59:41.278+08:00i second all the above comments. anything to do wi...i second all the above comments. anything to do with kids, she gets the boot.<br /><br />zero tolerance for cruelty.motthttp://mott.blogsome.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-82549752093642296942009-08-07T18:58:10.394+08:002009-08-07T18:58:10.394+08:00omg, yes, u shld replace her. how can she cause ph...omg, yes, u shld replace her. how can she cause physical harm to your gals. think u have been patient enough with her.<br /><br />my maid is slow and she also like to say "yah,yah, yah" but she has improved slightly after i nagged her when she does things wrongly. <br /><br />i guess i am lucky my maid treats my girls (esp rye li) like queens. she wants to do everything for her and i have to stop her cause i dont want rye li to think she is being served all the time - i wont be keeping my maid when her contract ends nxt june.<br /><br />maybe u can threaten you maid for the time being with her salary if she still acts so stubbornly. but seeing that she has some violent nature, maybe jst tolerate silently till her last day with u. good luck with ur new maid!ryelihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18011853435778013081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-75465780954080260102009-08-07T18:38:12.702+08:002009-08-07T18:38:12.702+08:00Sorry to hear this! Hope u get a good replacement ...Sorry to hear this! Hope u get a good replacement soon.a&a'smomnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-78991786791431102982009-08-07T17:42:38.277+08:002009-08-07T17:42:38.277+08:00OMG..how dare she do that to your kids..pulling ha...OMG..how dare she do that to your kids..pulling hair and rough handled them. Luckily she is not taking care of the kids full time and you are at home to watch over her.Elainehttp://montessorimum.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-53064548219776571622009-08-07T17:10:34.680+08:002009-08-07T17:10:34.680+08:00I second wat Mumgather said. Poor work, still can ...I second wat Mumgather said. Poor work, still can tolerate. Even lying, to some extend, we can still tolerate. But treating our kids badly (samo in front of us), that's a big No No. Hope u'll hv better luck with the new one.slavemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06315421380713936287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-43093785850550439072009-08-07T15:52:04.811+08:002009-08-07T15:52:04.811+08:00Sorry to read about your maid problem. It's a ...Sorry to read about your maid problem. It's a tough one, esp treating the children (or anyone!) that way. Hope the replacement will be better.Charmainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07594029336646324940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-22689738726945865172009-08-07T15:20:12.453+08:002009-08-07T15:20:12.453+08:00I can understand ur situation.....
Better to let g...I can understand ur situation.....<br />Better to let go...i'll blog my story soon.LittleLambhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13871928542491062827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-85099916251716446402009-08-07T15:19:08.203+08:002009-08-07T15:19:08.203+08:00Hi Mummy,
It saddens me to know that maid could ...Hi Mummy, <br /><br />It saddens me to know that maid could do such to a kid. Especially causing the hurt to baby C.. which is such a young baby with tender skin. <br /><br />Hope you have better luck in new helper which will be coming.<br /><br />Meanwhile, watch out like a hawk towards her in case she is harbouring ill thots after being scolded. <br /><br />Take care ya..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-11691637616985198592009-08-07T15:14:08.227+08:002009-08-07T15:14:08.227+08:00Your maid really makes my blood boil. Who is she t...Your maid really makes my blood boil. Who is she to scold your kids ? What more now, hurting them when no one's looking. You've treated her well, brought her out for meals etc. Perhaps she thinks she's indispensable! Once my maid was careless with Amber and hurt her, my hubs hit the roof and shouted at her : IF YOU BREAK MY DAUGTHER'S HAND, I'LL BREAK YOURS ! YOU WATCH OUT !! <br />I think she got the message then.<br />I know it's not nice to shout at your maid but you should put her down immediately when she scold your kids.She's just a maid, paid to work, leaving in 2 years and no strings attached thereafter.<br />Shireen, from now onwards, don't even let her scold your kids. Tell her it's your job to reprimand and discipline the girls, not hers !coffeesncookieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04966978505780721659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-54987609209093174882009-08-07T15:10:52.342+08:002009-08-07T15:10:52.342+08:00You definitely need a replacement. We can still to...You definitely need a replacement. We can still tolerate poor performance in doing household chores but ill treating the kids in the manner you have described is certainly a no no even if it means having to lose money over it.Mumsgatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08578910510946597934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-22663760973763661732009-08-07T14:20:19.429+08:002009-08-07T14:20:19.429+08:00Oh my God!! She is really terrible. I've bee...Oh my God!! She is really terrible. I've been reading about these maids and I can't understand why they like to deny each time they are caught. They think their employers are stupid? You have to really keep at eye on her, Shireen. God knows what she'll do to the kids or your food, especially after some scolding.mommy to chumsyhttp://chumsyashley.infonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-86348301057526339032009-08-07T14:12:50.878+08:002009-08-07T14:12:50.878+08:00Since you have such a long history of bad experien...Since you have such a long history of bad experiences with maid, shuld consider something different to change your luck n break the bad trend. <br /><br />I have 3 kids also (2, 4 and 6 yo) and a double storey house + garden (much more work than condo unit!) <br /><br />I have daily part-time cleaner (many condo cleaners do hourly sessions for extra cash) clean, do laundry and wash-up after dinner. My two 2 older boys go to a teacher's house for after-school care - bath, lunch, and homework supervision. Hubby picks them up after work.<br /><br />I have plenty of time to care for toddler, prepare nice meals, enjoy quiet me-time, even read books and occasionally go shopping with baby without the madness of 3 noisy, whiny, fighting kids plus annoying maid. <br /><br />all in all minimum yelling and tears, plus hubby doesn't have to come back to crazy home after a hard day at the office.<br /><br />After dinner we all just happily flop ourselves on the sofa or go out shopping etc.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4047251100310275845.post-50463893919631244102009-08-07T13:24:26.726+08:002009-08-07T13:24:26.726+08:00Geeee...you should get immediately replacement lia...Geeee...you should get immediately replacement liao!! I never see maid behave so rude to the kids in front of the parent. How dare she is....MamaJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01140764284095370466noreply@blogger.com