Who Pays The Bridesmaids’ Dresses And Accessories?

 Who should pay for the bridesmaids’ dresses?

According to traditional wedding etiquette in some countries, the bridesmaids pay for their dresses, shoes, accessories, and makeup. However, wedding traditions have evolved over the years, and many couples partially or fully pay for the cost of each member of the bridal party's clothes. Generally speaking, there are no hard and fast rules stating that the bride should pay for each bridesmaid dress; it’s widely accepted that she will as a gesture of appreciation.

 

The bride usually pays the bill if she envisions all her bridesmaids wearing a certain color, brand, or design. If she wants her girls to look like bridesmaids in color-coordinated dresses for impeccable wedding photos – and therefore wear a dress they probably will not wear again, it’s only fair that the bride foots the bill.  It’s becoming more common for brides to cover the cost of the bridesmaid dresses and accessories as a gesture of appreciation. Ultimately, the decision is dependent on the bride’s budget and her relationship with the bridesmaids.

 

If you’re not paying for the bridesmaids’ dresses

Even if the bride doesn’t have the budget to sponsor the bridesmaids’ dresses, she can still tell her girlfriends her preference for the dress style and colors. There should be open communication with all the members of the bridal party.

It would be a good idea to ask the bridesmaids to stick to a certain color or hue, not a specific dress so that they can wear the dress again. Modsele has a wide collection of affordable elegant bridesmaid dresses that you and your bridesmaids will love.

 

What About The Bridesmaids’ Shoes?

Some brides are relaxed about their bridesmaids' shoes and will suggest something like white or nude strappy heels since it’s likely that some bridesmaids already have such shoes in their wardrobe.  If the bride is paying for the dresses, it’s reasonable for the bridesmaids to pay for their shoes. However, if you are particular about the shoes that your bridesmaids wear and want them to wear a specific shoe, then yes, the bride should pay for it.  Of course, if the bride and groom are wealthy or have a big budget to splurge, they can foot the bill for the shoes too! Even if your bridesmaids are very close to you, they will have a limit on their budget and you have to honor this.

 

Who pays the bridesmaids’ hairdo and makeup?

Again, this comes back to the bride’s budget and what everyone is comfortable with. Some brides and their bridesmaids share the cost while others DIY. If the bride has a big budget, the bride squad can have their hair and makeup done by professionals.

 

In Conclusion

Open communication is important and at the outset, the bride must convey clear expectations regarding what she will pay and what the bridesmaids will pay. This is to prevent misunderstandings and ensure everyone is on the same page.

Remember that your wedding is just one day but your friendship with your friends is forever and so precious, so handle those money talks with tact, sensitivity, love, and understanding.