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Saturday, October 3, 2026

Are you Team Fully Ripe or Team Half-Ripe?

Have you noticed that the bananas we buy seem to ripen so quickly? Most of the time, a banana that is half green and half yellow in the morning can turn completely yellow by the same night.

I’ve spoken to a few fruit sellers in KL who told me that calcium carbide is always used to speed up the ripening of bananas and other fruits such as papayas and mangoes. Calcium carbide is a ripening agent that has been banned or restricted for food use in many places because of safety concerns, yet it is widely used here. So, personally, I’d rather let my bananas ripen naturally whenever possible.

Anyway, coming back to my bananas. 😂

I actually prefer half-ripened bananas. They’re firmer, less sweet and I simply like the taste and texture more. Fully ripe bananas are just a little too sweet and mushy for me.

So whenever Dad comes home from the market with his usual half-ripened bananas, I’ll cut up a few and pop them into the freezer. ❄️🍌 This way, I can enjoy my half-ripened bananas throughout the week without them all becoming soft and overly sweet overnight.

Half-ripe bananas contain more resistant starch than fully ripe bananas.  Resistant starch acts somewhat like fibre and may support a gentler blood-sugar response, satiety and a healthy gut microbiome. Resistant starch passes through your small intestine undigested and reaches your colon, where gut bacteria ferment it into beneficial compounds.

And one more thing I do: I usually eat a few nuts before my banana.  The protein, fat and fibre in nuts can help slow down digestion and may help reduce the rise in blood sugar after eating carbohydrate. It’s a simple little trick I use when I want to enjoy my banana (or any carb) without sending my blood sugar soaring.

Which camp are you in — fully ripened, half-ripened or raw/green bananas? 🍌


The bananas in the middle have my preferred ripeness.


Wait… There’s RICE in My White Pepper?!

I was today years old when I found out that the ground white pepper I bought online was NOT 100% pure pepper! 😂

Instead, it contains ground rice mixed with white pepper. I didn't even know until my mum asked me to check the ingredients coz I told her that the pepper had no taste. 😳

Seriously, why do they have to add ground rice to pepper? No wonder this white pepper doesn't have much of a peppery taste, even though the packaging says Sarawak pepper.

So, at 53, I have learned another important auntie life lesson:

Always check the ingredients label when buying ground spices! 😂

Make sure it says 100% pure white pepper or black pepper, with no added fillers or other ingredients.

Now I understand why this shaker-bottle white pepper was slightly cheaper. It was mixed with rice! Aiyo… felt a bit cheated. 😅 But okay, partly my own ignorance because I didn't read the ingredients properly.

So don't be like this auntie. 🙈

Read the ingredients label carefully before buying your spices. You may be getting less pepper than you think!

And BTW, have you ever seen those videos claiming that some chilli powder is adulterated with things like brick powder to make it look redder? 🤔🌶️

I don't know how true every one of those videos is, but after discovering the rice in my pepper, I'm definitely going to be reading my spice labels more carefully from now on! 😂





Friday, October 2, 2026

Can a Walk in the Forest Really Boost Your Immune System?

I love brisk walking outdoors, especially in places surrounded by lots of trees and greenery. And apparently, there may be more to it than just getting some exercise, helping you de-stress, and enjoying the scenery.

Trees and other plants release natural chemicals called phytoncides. These are volatile compounds that plants produce as part of their defence system against insects, bacteria and other threats.

When we spend time in a forest or anywhere filled with greenery, we breathe in some of these compounds. Studies on forest bathing have found that spending time in a forest may temporarily increase the activity of our natural killer (NK) cells — immune cells that help identify and destroy virus-infected and abnormal cells.

Some studies have even found that the increase in NK-cell activity can last for several days after a forest visit. Amazing, isn’t it?

There are probably several things working together — the physical activity, fresh air, greenery, relaxation, reduced stress and possibly those plant compounds.

So perhaps my regular walks in my neighbourhood that’s surrounded by greenery and limestone hills aren't just good for my legs and my mental health. They may also be giving my immune system a little helping hand. 🌳

No fancy wellness retreat required. Just find some trees and go for a walk. Find it hard to believe that nature and trees can strengthen your immunity? Go Google it yourself 😄😄



My Low-Carb “Dessert” Fix

One of my favourite “desserts” that won’t cause much of a blood sugar rise is… cheese!

I actually LOVE those individually wrapped square cheese slices, but they are more processed and can be quite high in sodium and other food additives. So when I buy cheese, I usually go for block cheese with the shortest ingredient list and the lowest sodium I can find.

Cheese is naturally very low in carbohydrates, so it has minimal impact on blood glucose. Of course, the nutritional profile varies between different types of cheese, so I still pay attention to the label, especially the sodium and saturated fat.

My favourite way to enjoy cream cheese is spreading a little on sprouted wheat bread, dipping raw bell peppers into it, or simply eating it on its own.

I love cheesecake, but most cheesecakes are way too sweet for me these days — and they can be pretty expensive too. So this is my much simpler and cheaper alternative.

I'm currently trying to bring my HbA1c down from 6.0 to at least 5.5. Hopefully, with more strength training and some further adjustments to my diet and lifestyle, my blood test next month will show some improvement.

And here's something worth remembering: you don't have to look overweight, unfit, or unhealthy to have a higher-than-ideal HbA1c. Blood glucose and HbA1c are influenced by many factors, not just body size or appearance. I wrote an article on HbA1C earlier, titled I Don’t Eat Much Sugar—So Why Is My HbA1c Still High?


Bega Tatura cream cheese - I eat it as it on its own, like ice-cream 😋


Love this Tatura cream cheese.


Raw red bell pepper with cream cheese.



Raw green bell pepper with cream cheese.







Thursday, October 1, 2026

A Simple Way To Blunt Blood Sugar Spikes After Meals

One simple way to help reduce the rise in blood glucose after a meal is to get your muscles moving soon afterwards. You don't necessarily need to go outdoors for a walk, though it would be great if you can.  5–10 minutes of squats, sit-to-stands or light dumbbell exercises can get your muscles working and encourage them to take up glucose from the bloodstream, helping to blunt the post-meal glucose rise.

I usually mop the kitchen floor and clean up after every meal, so that's already about half an hour of movement. Then I head to my room and do another 5–10 minutes of light dumbbell exercises, including squats, before I shower. Sometimes I walk up and down the stairs for at least 10 minutes.

You don't need a long workout or hundreds of squats. A few sets of comfortable, moderate-intensity exercises using your legs, arms or other large muscle groups can get your muscles working. 

Post-meal exercise can help with short-term blood glucose control.  For long-term diabetes prevention, it's about the bigger picture: keeping your carbohydrate intake sensible, staying physically active, building and maintaining muscle, maintaining a healthy weight and getting enough good-quality sleep. Your muscles are one of the body's major tissues for storing and using glucose, so keeping them active is definitely a good thing.

PS: The photo is our dinner from a few nights ago. Dad cooked steamed bearded chicken and made a basil, soy sauce, fried garlic and fried garlic oil dipping sauce for the chicken. We also had sautéed yau mak and French beans with preserved vegetables, carrot, onions and garlic. Simple home-cooked food — and very yummy! 😋



Wednesday, September 30, 2026

Shopee and Lazada Poison Post

If you’re a regular shopper on Shopee and Lazada, you’ll know there are sales at least 3 times a month. Minimum! Sometimes even more.

There’s the same-digit date sales (9/9, 10/10, 11/11, etc), Mid-Month Sale and Pay Day Sale. And honestly, some things are so much cheaper than what you’ll find in supermarkets and even 99 Speedmart.

The padded gym wear items are also much cheaper than branded ones. And if you know which stores to buy from, the quality can actually be really good.

So… what was my damage for September? 😅

Lots of gym wear, shampoo, conditioner, walnuts, chia seeds, flaxseed meal, organic lemon juice, apple cider vinegar, Top Glove nitrile gloves, wet wipes, hanging tissues, bedding… and probably a few things I’ve conveniently forgotten. 😂

But I think I saved more than RM100 (maybe more) by buying these during online sales instead of buying them elsewhere.

So sorry for this poison post. 🤣

This is just a retired cheapo auntie teaching you how to save some money. You’re welcome. 😂

I bought this flare bra top here >> https://s.lazada.com.my/s.Z3TMr1?c=d&t=p-iGISbaK-s2G67h8b

Top Glove nitrile gloves (excellent quality with good grip) here >>https://s.lazada.com.my/s.Z3TMwY?c=d&t=p-i4NRRdc-sOvYvE4


Padded flair bra top with cross back straps - size L (quite big on me) but super comfy. Can breathe easily in it. Suitable for zumba and casual wear.



Top Glove disposable nitrile gloves with excellent grip and quality. They can even be reused. My favourite gloves for cleaning and washing dishes. Perfect for an OCD auntie 🤣.






Mum Worries

The past week, my mind has been flooded with all sorts of worries.

I’m a professional worrier and overthinker. 😂 So when problems crop up, I basically double up on the worrying and overthinking.

I worry about my daughters’ relationships, their university studies, whether they’ll pass their exams or suddenly decide to drop out. Someone has already switched course mid way and it's a very tedious (and costly!) process.  I worry when they’re not home yet — Why are they home so late?! — and worry even more when they don’t reply my messages. 😩

I can be quite negative at times too. I don’t have the best relationship with “thinking positive” — sometimes the outcome isn’t exactly encouraging. 😂

No names mentioned here because I have a feeling my daughters secretly read my blogs and Facebook page. 

It’s tough being a mum, even when your kids are young adults. You can’t exactly breathe down their necks because they’ll tell you to relax and they may not want you to know too much too … so you worry quietly lor. 😂

Anyone else in the same boat with young adult kids?

PS - My TOTD - green tea with homegrown blue pea flowers and purple flowers (don't know its scientific name but it has medicinal properties).




Monday, September 28, 2026

The Homework Years

This is the scene at our house in KL back when my girls were in Chinese primary school. Every single day, there would be a mountain of homework piled up on the dining table — just from school. And then there was another pile of Chinese tuition homework waiting for them on their desks.




Life revolved around homework: school homework, Chinese tuition at home, more homework from the tutor, and BM tuition outside for the two older girls.

Eventually, they got so sick and tired of homework that I think it actually backfired. 😂 I knew they were hiding their homework and not finishing it, but I was often too busy with my own freelance work and running my online shop to check every single day.

Every now and then, I would check their school bags and discover unfinished homework hiding inside. Some of the piles honestly shocked me. 

I really didn't know how to handle it because, at the same time, I knew they were exhausted. Chinese wasn't their first language — English was what we spoke at home, and both their parents couldn't speak Mandarin. So here they were, trying to keep up in a Chinese-medium school while juggling tuition and even more homework.

Somehow, they survived all six years at Kuen Cheng 2, which was a Grade A school and, back then, recognised as a Sekolah Berprestasi Tinggi. Two daughters went on to study at a Chinese Independent High School and survived yet again.

Looking back, I'm actually glad those crazy homework years are behind us. And despite all the struggles, I'm also glad I sent them to a Chinese school. Today, all three of them can converse fluently in Mandarin.

Meanwhile, their yellow banana mum is still struggling with Mandarin and has to use Google Translate. 😂🍌

So I guess all those piles of homework were worth something after all. 😆






Sunday, September 27, 2026

Missing My Girls

Missing my 3 daughters just a little more today. ❤️

All three of them are completely absorbed in their own busy lives — university, exams, assignments, dance and skating practices, social life, work and even house renovations. 😅

It would be lovely if they could make a short trip back to Ipoh for a little break, but I guess that probably won’t happen until Christmas or CNY.

But do I regret moving back to Ipoh? Not at all. I love being here with my parents and having this slower, simpler life. It’s just that I still worry about my girls every single day, even though they’re all grown up now.

And today, this photo of my three girls suddenly popped up on my Google Photos. It was taken in September 2011 — exactly 15 years ago — at Pavilion KL. Back then, we were crazy about going to Tokyo Street, browsing Daiso and having Japanese food at Pavilion.

Looking at this photo made me miss those days when my girls were little, sweeter and still thought I was their hero. 😂 Now they’re all grown up, busy with their own lives and probably don’t need their mother nearly as much anymore. 🥹

And then I realised… this must be exactly what my mum went through 36 years ago when I left Ipoh for KL to study.

So I guess this is payback time. 😂

What goes around, comes around, Mum! 




Friday, September 25, 2026

Mid Autumn Festival 2026

Knowing that I’m attending Zumba this evening, Dad thoughtfully cooked a big pot of lentil and vegetable curry for lunch and dinner. So sweet of him! ❤️

He also bought half a roast chicken this morning so that I can have an early dinner. When it comes to roast chicken, the breast meat goes to Haru and me. 😂🐱

Unfortunately, Mum won’t be joining me at the gym for the time being, as the aches and pains in her limbs haven’t improved yet. Hopefully she’ll feel better soon.

We didn’t buy any mooncakes this year because we find most of them a little too sweet. But our neighbour gave us some famous Kam Ling snowskin mooncakes from Kampar, from his wife’s parents’ shop, and Alycia’s BFF also gifted us some less-sweet mooncakes from KL.

So we ended up with mooncakes anyway! 😂

And did you know that a typical mooncake can easily pack around 400 calories? That’s quite a lot of calories for one little round of deliciousness! Depending on your body weight and pace, you could be looking at several kilometres of running to burn that off. 😂

Wishing everyone a very happy Mid-Autumn Festival! 🥮🏮🌕


Zumba OOTD.


Pressure-cooked lentil and vegetable curry.


What's inside the curry - lentils, sweet potato, carrots, potatoes, big onions, garlic, tomatoes, broccoli, brinjals, puffed tofu, moringa leaves, curry leaves, spices and EVCO.


Rice cooked together with the curry in the PPC.




Thursday, September 24, 2026

23 September 2026 — Lunch & Dinner

Lunch: Tapau chap fan from our favourite shop — braised chicken with black fungus, braised tofu, steamed fish and braised turnip. Only RM23.

The three of us couldn’t even finish the chicken, so the leftovers went straight into the dinner menu. Why we ate so little? Coz at 83, dad doesn't like eating meat anymore, he's a flexitarian now.

Dinner: Dad took over the kitchen as usual. ❤️

Sautéed Romano beans with leftover roast chicken and char siu, air-fried salmon with garlic and turmeric, and steamed tofu with a little fish sauce and scallions.

Simple food, but so good.

After more than two decades of planning two meals a day for my daughters, I finally don’t have to do it anymore. 😂

No more daily brain gymnastics of “What shall I buy and cook? What shall we eat?”

Retired Ipoh auntie life has its perks. 😆









Wednesday, September 23, 2026

Shopee Sale

Shopee is having 50% OFF on clothes from selected sellers, and my favourite seller is one of them!

As a responsible retired Ipoh auntie, I had to investigate.
And somehow, my investigation resulted in a few new bra tops and skorts joining my wardrobe. 😂
But hello… 50% OFF leh! Half price! This is called saving money, okay? 🤣🤣
If you’re looking for affordable workout/activewear, check them out here >>

PS - do size up when selecting clothes from this seller. I am wearing size XL for this bra top and size L for this skorts. My weight is 41.5kg as reference. I prefer loose-fitting vs. dumpling tight.



Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Dad’s Kitchen, Dad’s Rules

Stir-fried leek with siew yoke is one of our family favourites, and one of my 83-yo Hakka Dad’s signature dishes. ❤️

It’s a popular Hakka dish and a common sight on the dining table during CNY because leeks have an auspicious meaning. It’s also a pretty delicious way to “recycle” leftover roast pork. 

Simple, inexpensive, fuss-free… and SO yummy! 😋

While Dad is busy being the Head Chef, my JD in this house is to clean up after him — the kitchen floor, counters, stove and, of course, some of the dirty dishes.

But here’s the funny part…

Dad doesn’t even allow Mum and me to wash the dishes! Apparently, we’re all doing it “the wrong way.” 

So I’ve had to master the art of quietly washing the dishes whenever Dad isn’t looking. 🙈

Because in Dad’s kitchen, apparently even washing dishes (and throwing rubbish) requires the correct SOP. 🤣




The Ipoh Auntie Guide to a Less-Bloated Tummy

Some time ago at the hair salon, a lady in her 50s saw me walking in — as usual, in my gym wear. She stared at me for a while and, even though we didn't know each other, suddenly asked:

“Eh, what do you do to have such a flat tummy?”

😂😂😂

Actually… I DON'T have a flat tummy.

After three kids, expecting an abdomen like an airport runway is a bit ambitious. 😂

My midsection is relatively flat mainly because I don't eat a lot, I've cut down significantly on UPFs, sugar and refined carbs, and I exercise and stay pretty active.

These are the simple things I find helpful for keeping my tummy from getting too bloated:

1. Stop eating when I'm about 50–60% full.

I rarely eat until I'm stuffed — even at buffets.

Forget the FOMO and the kiasu mentality of “I've paid for it, must eat until I get my money's worth!” 😂

Your stomach doesn't know whether you've paid RM30 or RM300 for the buffet.

2. Cut down on sugary foods and refined carbs.

Since moving back to Ipoh, I've hardly eaten junk food because my parents in their 80s don't really eat that stuff.

My usual snacks are pretty boring — nuts, seeds and yoghurt. Very glamorous, I know. 😂

3. Keep moving.

Exercise if you can. If you don't have time for a proper workout, at least don't spend the whole day sitting.

Walk around the house. Move around the office. Use a standing desk if that works for you.

After meals, I usually don't plonk myself straight onto a chair. I'll mop the floor, clean the kitchen or stand while doing some work on my laptop.

Basically, my post-meal exercise is… household chores. Very atas. 🤣

4. Don't eat too close to bedtime.

When I was living in KL, I used to have dinner as early as 3-4pm with my girls when they came home from school.

Now that I'm back in Ipoh, that's no longer possible because my parents eat later — and they insist that I eat with them.

So I just eat a very small portion. Basically, toddler-sized. 😂

I also try to finish dinner at least about 3 hours before bedtime.

My “flat tummy” tips are really nothing complicated.

No expensive treatments.

No slimming packages.

No Ozempic.

Just cheapo Ipoh auntie methods that I've been doing for years. 😂

Eat less. Move more. Don't stuff yourself. And be consistent.

That's pretty much it.

Dad's homecooked dinner - braised radish and carrot with pork ribs, sauteed red spinach, air-fried salmon with homegrown tarragon and rosemary, and steamed turmeric pandan basmati rice for dad & mum. I dont eat rice.




Monday, September 21, 2026

Retired Ipoh Auntie Life

Sunday, 20 Sept 2026 — What We Ate 

Breakfast: Mum’s homemade keto pandan santan mug cake + chocolate mug cake. 😋

Lunch: Leftover Seoul Garden from last night. We’re such small eaters that THREE dishes became dinner + today’s lunch. 😂

Dinner was my 83-yo dad’s home-cooked spread — red bell pepper with garlic, onions & tempeh, silky steamed egg, siew pak choy and steamed fish with red dates & goji berries. Mum also made homemade yogurt with fresh pandan juice and coconut cream. SO good! 🤤

Back in KL, Sundays were usually “Where shall we go eat?” days. Here in Ipoh, life is basically:

Eat. Clean the house. Exercise. Eat again. Hang out with Mum, Dad & Haru. Clean up after dinner. Repeat. 😂

Sounds boring, but honestly? This is exactly the kind of low-chaos life I want at 53.

No rushing, no packed schedules — just simple food, family, a happy tummy and a peaceful life.

Apparently, my idea of excitement these days is… what’s for lunch and dinner?


Sauteed red bell pepper with tempeh + carrots + garlic + onion.


Steamed fish fillet with red dates + goji berries, steamed egg and steamed siew pak choy.


I don't eat rice, so dad steamed a sweet potato for me.


Mum's pressure-cooked pandan + santan unsweetened yogurt.




Sunday, September 20, 2026

Nong Geng Ji Hunan Cuisine @ Sunway Pyramid

A quick lunch at Nong Geng Ji Hunan Cuisine @ Sunway Pyramid 🌶️🥢

Last month, when I went to Sunway Pyramid for my youngest daughter Cass's figure skating competition at Skate Asia, we stopped by Nong Geng Ji Hunan Cuisine for lunch.

I only had about 30 minutes to eat because my taxi was coming at 3.30pm to drive me all the way back to Ipoh. So this was definitely a case of eat first, chew later. 😂

Cass's dad ordered three dishes for the three of us — dry pot shredded spicy cabbage, stir-fried silky tomato omelette and stir-fried free-range chicken with tea oil.

Everything was really good, but my favourite was the tomato omelette. 🍅. I honestly didn't expect a simple-looking tomato-and-egg dish to be the star of the meal, but it was SO good.

The bill came up to RM120.50 for three dishes, which I thought was pretty reasonable for a restaurant in Sunway Pyramid. And the portions were quite generous too. Because I was rushing and could only eat a little, there was still quite a lot of food left. Cass happily tapau-ed the leftovers for her lunch the next day. 😂

There was even free ice cream for diners, but sadly, yours truly had zero time to investigate the ice cream situation. 😭🍦

I also really liked the ambience. The waiting staff were dressed in traditional Hunan-style costumes, which added a nice touch to the whole dining experience.

Nong Geng Ji is a China-origin Hunan restaurant chain that came to Malaysia in 2024, and the Sunway Pyramid outlet opened in 2025. It has also received pretty good reviews from diners.

The next time I'm at Sunway Pyramid, I'll definitely go back — hopefully with more than 30 minutes to eat this time! 😂

If you're at Sunway Pyramid and in the mood for something a little different from the usual Chinese fare, Nong Geng Ji is definitely one place you can consider trying. 🌶️🥢

Nong Geng Ji Hunan Cuisine 农耕记湖南菜

📍 Sunway Pyramid, LG1.42

💰 Our lunch: RM120.50 for 3 dishes / 3 people

You can watch a short video of our lunch at Nong Geng Ji on my Facebook Page.




1980s Nurse or Tennis Player?

I bought this white tennis dress with a built-in bra and shorts online, and it took less than a week to arrive from overseas. Not bad! 

The quality is actually pretty good, and it’s not sheer at all. BUT the moment I put it on, I had one thought:

OMG… why do I look like a nurse from the 1980s?! 😂😂😂

If you’re old enough like yours truly, you’ll remember the nurses and school dentist back then — white dresses, white shoes, very proper-looking… especially those who came to school to give us our jabs and to pull our teeth. 💉😱

So… be honest. Am I giving tennis girl vibes or 1980s school nurse vibes? 🎾💉🤣

I got the dress from Shopee >>>https://s.shopee.com.my/1BMTtWnQmd







Saturday, September 19, 2026

35 Years in KL, Still Lost

I find it quite amusing that after living in KL for 35 years, I’m still pretty lost when it comes to driving around. 😂

In fact, I hardly ever ventured out of my comfort zone. During those 35 years in KL, I mostly drove to and from work, church, my daughters’ primary and high schools, and my favourite shopping malls — Mid Valley Megamall and Lot 10. That’s about it. 😂

Anywhere else, I would simply order a Grab, or the girls’ dad would send me. So much for becoming a seasoned KL driver after 35 years!

But back in Ipoh, somehow it’s a completely different story. Even if I get lost, I can usually find my way home without Waze. Sometimes I still use Waze, of course, but I seem to have a built-in mental map of Ipoh that refuses to disappear. 😆

And the funny thing is, I only lived in Ipoh for 17 years — and I was a young, impatient 17-year-old who was so raring to leave for the big city to study!

Yesterday after Zumba class, I had to take a detour because one of the roads was still closed for repair works. I took another route, but because it was already dark, I missed a turn and ended up heading somewhere else. 🤦🏻‍♀️

My eyesight isn’t great at night, so I generally avoid driving after dark unless absolutely necessary. What should have been a 5-minute drive home ended up taking more than 15 minutes because of my wrong turn. 😂

But the good thing is, even though I left Ipoh 35 years ago, I still remember so many of the roads surprisingly well — even in the dark. And eventually, without Waze, I managed to find my way home. 

Another thing that still amazes me every time I drive around Ipoh is the traffic. Or rather, the lack of it! 

Ipoh traffic is SO much more manageable compared to KL. Even around my old neighbourhood of Taman Desa, you can get stuck in horrendous traffic jams.

Here in Ipoh, I can actually drive around without constantly thinking, “Which lane do I need to be in? Where’s the next jam? Where am I going to park?” 🤣

And parking in Ipoh! Oh, the joy of being able to find a parking space without having to circle a car park 17 times. 😂

After 35 years in KL, I think I’m finally rediscovering what it feels like to drive without stress.

One of my bosses used to tell me that I didn't have a compass in my head. Maybe I didn’t lose my sense of direction after all.

I just needed to come home to Ipoh. ❤️




Dad’s Kitchen, Dad’s Rules

Dinner for 4, cooked entirely by Dad — solo operation, as usual. 😂

The kitchen is Dad’s territory, and he does NOT like anyone coming in to “help”. Apparently, too many cooks in his kitchen is a serious offence.  So we know better than to interfere. Just stay out of the kitchen and wait for the food to magically appear, though at times dinner will only be ready at 8+ pm, which is like supper to me 😂

This was the dinner he cooked when my younger brother was back in Ipoh recently: his signature turmeric chicken with turmeric leaves, sautéed red bell pepper with French beans, pan-fried garoupa with ginger, stinky beans with fermented black beans, stir-fried spinach and a pot of herbal soup.

Simple, home-cooked food… but everything was yummy! 😋 




Friday, September 18, 2026

53 And Still Shaking It

Two weeks away from the gym and tonight, this 53-year-old auntie made her grand comeback! 😂💃

One hour of non-stop Zumba, and boy, did it feel GOOD to be back! Very sweaty but very happy. 😆

Mum sat this one out as she was feeling a little under the weather, so it was just me tonight.

And of course… had to take a quick OOTD shot. 😜

Not bad for 53, rightttt?

Auntie still got some moves! 💃🔥😂