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Monday, October 19, 2026

My Sanrio Bedsheet Haul: Below RM100 for 4 Sets

Haru loves sleeping on my bed. The funny thing is, I never allowed her on my bed when we were living in KL. For five years after we rescued her from the streets, she slept on her own little bed in the living room.

But ever since I brought her back to Ipoh in December 2025, this little fella has decided that sleeping with Mum is the way to go. 😹

The problem? I have OCD tendencies, and I’m allergic to her fur. As much as I love Haru and treat her like my baby, I really don’t like having cat fur all over my bed. But how do you have the heart to kick your fur baby out of your room when she just wants to sleep beside you? 🥹

So, I came up with a compromise. I cover my bed with a bedsheet and wash it every day. This way, there’s minimal fur on my bed, and I don’t end up sneezing or having itchy skin and eyes. Win-win!

Recently, I discovered on TikTok that you could get king-size bedsheets for under RM20. Being the bargain hunter that I am, I just had to buy a set to try! 😂

When the first set arrived, I was pleasantly surprised. The quality was actually pretty good, and the prints were so cute!  Then I went back to order another set, then another, and now I have FOUR sets of king-size bedsheets for less than RM100 in total! 😍

What a steal! Now I can change and wash my bedsheets every day without worrying about running out of clean ones. Fresh bedsheets every day, happy Mum, happy Haru!

Of course, there’s one tiny problem. I have to make sure this little maniac doesn’t suddenly get the zoomies and start parkouring around my room and across my bed. Otherwise, my new bedsheets will be shredded in no time! 🤣

Most of my existing bedsheets already have threads fraying and coming loose thanks to her little claws. Apparently, having a cat means accepting that your home furnishings are now her personal scratching playground. 🙄😂

This TikTok shop carries bedsheets featuring several Sanrio characters, and the prints are really cute! If you’re looking for affordable king-size bedsheets, you can check them out here: >>

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS9Uur8MEWmne-kRrCl/















The Haze Is Back, but Nothing Beats 2015

The worst haze I’ve ever experienced was in October 2015. It was so bad that even from the 5th floor of our condo, we couldn’t see the Twin Towers or any other buildings in the distance. Our air purifier stayed on red throughout the day for weeks!

On one particularly frightening day, the entire sky turned yellow. It felt like something out of an apocalypse movie, as if the world were coming to an end. 😱 Check out the photos I took back in October 2015.

Although the haze this year has been pretty bad, it’s still nothing compared to what we experienced in 2015. UM, where my youngest daughter studies, has even moved classes online until further notice.

Speaking of my youngest daughter, she spent the past three days in Johor Bahru competing in Skate Johor, and this proud mum is happy to share that she won gold in both her events! 🥇🥇 She also clinched gold in her event at the Skate Asia competition in August. What an achievement! 

Unfortunately, I have no photos or videos to share this time because she doesn’t like me posting them for the whole world to see.  That’s my girl — a very private person who prefers to stay out of the limelight. I’ll respect her wishes lorrr.

Next week, she and her two older sisters will be flying to Taiwan to attend a relative’s wedding. Wah, this girl is one busy bee! 🐝 Between university, skating competitions, skate classes and training, skate coaching, uni exams, and family trips, she certainly has a packed schedule.

Hopefully, she’ll have some time to come to Ipoh next month during her semester break. This mum would love to have all her girls around, even if it’s just for a little while.❤️


Taken on 20 Oct 2015. The skies suddenly turned dusty yellow in the evening!




20 Oct 2015 - We could barely see anything outside the window from the 5th floor of our condo.


3 Oct 2015. Even with the windows all closed, we could smell smoke inside our unit, even in our bedrooms throughout the day.





My Favourite 10/10 Sale Hauls: Peppermint Leaves & Longjing Green Tea

Two of my most recent favourite online sale hauls are dried peppermint leaves and Longjing green tea leaves! 🍃

I've ditched tea bags for a few years now because of concerns about micro and nanoplastics. I used to cut open tea bags and pour the tea contents into my cup to brew, rather than steeping the bags directly in hot water. Now, I've taken things one step further by switching to whole tea leaves instead of the tea powder or crushed tea commonly found in tea bags.

And I've discovered that whole dried leaves are so much more aromatic! 

My latest haul included peppermint leaves and two types of green tea leaves, and I'm especially loving the peppermint and Longjing green tea.

🌿 Peppermint Tea

The peppermint leaves brew into a wonderfully refreshing cup with a strong, cooling peppermint flavour. I love drinking this in the afternoon and evening when I need something refreshing!

🍵 Longjing Green Tea

Longjing is my favourite type of green tea, and the aroma of these whole leaves is simply lovely! I drink it in the morning and before 2pm, as I prefer to avoid caffeine later in the day.

The flavour and aroma are on another level compared with the green tea I've had from tea bags. Once you've experienced the fragrance of these whole leaves, it's hard not to appreciate the difference!

If you're a fellow tea lover and would like to try switching to loose-leaf tea, you can check out my finds here. 👇

Peppermint Leaves (Shopee) >> https://s.shopee.com.my/9fLjQyUJdh

Longjing Green Tea Leaves (Lazada) >> https://s.lazada.com.my/s.ZexZJt?c=d&t=p-iYTBm4-s13Pe5A

Happy brewing! ☕️💚


My cuppa pure peppermint tea - so cooling and refreshing.


My cuppa refreshing tea - longjing with peppermint leaves.


Dried longjing (Dragon Well) tea leaves


Chrysanthemum buds and peppermint leaves, two of my favourites.



My Daily 10K Steps

Health experts often recommend aiming for 10,000 steps a day to stay healthy and support longevity. I clock up at least 10K steps most days since I got my first smart watch (a Fitbit) 8 years ago. Not too shabby for a soon-to-be 54-year-old auntie, eh? 😆💪🏻

But lately, the haze has been so bad that I've had to skip my usual evening brisk walks. Instead, I stay indoors to do my dumbbell exercises and dance along to K-pop dance videos on YouTube. Got to improvise when the weather doesn't cooperate! 😂

On days when I have Zumba, I clock up at least 13K steps! Not bad, right? It's technically dancing, but my legs are moving non-stop for a whole hour. Who says exercise has to be boring? 💃🏻🔥




Saturday, October 17, 2026

Friday, 16 October 2026

When I got home, I told Haru that Mum had gotten a parking saman and was feeling so sad and careless. 

She looked stunned at first, then gave me this totally nonchalant look, as if saying, “So? What do you expect me to do? Just pay the saman, Mum.” 🙄😂

Wah, this cat has absolutely zero sympathy for her poor mum! 🤣🐱

Anyway, my day ended on a much happier note after my evening Zumba class! 💃❤️

Zumba always makes me happy. Not that I can dance like BLACKPINK  but I  do love watching their videos to learn some of their dance moves.  It's the thunderous music blasting through the studio that really gets me going. The energy is infectious, and we have an awesome and funny Zumba coach too, who also happens to be our strength training coach!

Unfortunately, Mum had to cancel at the last minute today as she was still feeling under the weather. She's still having a bad tummy and aching legs, so she decided to rest instead.

Hopefully, she'll feel much better by next week and can join me again for our workout sessions. 

Well, at least the day ended with some music, sweat and happy endorphins instead of saman blues.







My Daily 10K Steps

Health experts often recommend aiming for 10,000 steps a day to stay healthy and support longevity. I clock up at least 10K steps most days since I got my first smart watch (a Fitbit) 8 years ago. Not too shabby for a soon-to-be 54-year-old auntie, eh? 😆💪🏻

But lately, the haze has been so bad that I've had to skip my usual evening brisk walks. Instead, I stay indoors to do my dumbbell exercises and dance along to K-pop dance videos on YouTube. Got to improvise when the weather doesn't cooperate! 😂

On days when I have Zumba, I clock up at least 13K steps! Not bad, right? It's technically dancing, but my legs are moving non-stop for a whole hour. Who says exercise has to be boring? 💃🏻🔥




My Unlucky Day: Got a Parking Saman!

Today is officially my unlucky day. I got a parking saman! 😩

I thought I could just park my car for less than 5 minutes to grab a few items from 99 Speedmart in my neighbourhood. After all, I was only going to be inside for a minute or two, right?

While I was at the counter, I suddenly heard a lady shouting, “Chow phai!” (police issuing summonses!).

OMG! I immediately abandoned my shopping, ran out of the shop without even finishing paying, but alas, it was too late. The saman had already been issued. 😭

So, lesson learned, people! Even if you're just popping into a shop for ONE minute and your car is parked right outside, don't take the risk!

Don't be lazy to open your TNG app to pay for parking. Don't try to save 30 sen by paying for just 30 minutes (or whatever the minimum parking duration is in your area). That little bit of money you think you're saving could end up costing you much more!

Here's the cost of my lesson:

RM15 if paid within 7 days

RM20 if paid within 8–14 days

RM30 if paid after 14 days

Well, this auntie has learned a lesson today. Not a very expensive one, thankfully, but one that makes me want to bang my head against the wall. 🤦‍♀️😂

Now, should I wait and hope the government will announce another traffic saman discount campaign?

Nah! Better not gamble on that. I'll just pay it today, get this shit out of my mind, be law abiding, and move on with life.

From now on, even if I'm stepping out of the car for just HALF A MINUTE, I'm paying for parking first!

Lesson of the day: Don't let 30 sen turn into a RM15 saman 😓




Friday, October 16, 2026

A Morning at UTC Ipoh: Applying For Our New Generation MyKad and Driving Licences

This morning, Dad, Mum and I left the house at 8am and headed to UTC Ipoh to settle our MyKad and driving licence matters.

I needed to update the address on my MyKad, while Dad and Mum wanted to apply for the new-generation MyKad, which started to be issued in September 2026.

The new MyKad features a new physical design, upgraded chip technology and a total of 53 security features aimed at making the national identity card harder to counterfeit. There's also a QR code at the back of the new MyKad.

When we arrived at the JPN (National Registration Department) office, a RELA officer was seated outside, ready to advise visitors on what to do. I needed to photocopy a utility bill as proof of my new address, so I used the electric bill I had brought along. Thankfully, there was a photocopying service just a few steps away from the office, and it cost only 30 sen.

After getting my document photocopied, I returned to the office to take a queue number. There were only four people ahead of me, which is exceptionally few compared to my experience at UTC Pudu in KL. Back in KL, the entire place would be a sea of people by 8am. What a contrast between the two cities.

Meanwhile, Mum and Dad were already being attended to. I waited less than 30 minutes before it was my turn. I paid RM10 for the renewal, and my photo was taken right there at the counter. About 15 minutes later, my new MyKad was ready for collection.

The entire process was surprisingly quick!

Next, we headed to JPJ (Road Transport Department) office which was just next to the JPN office.  Dad and Mum wanted to renew their driving licences, while I needed to update the address on mine.

Once again, the process took less than half an hour.  To get a queue number, you have to download an app onto your phone, and a Rela officer was there to assist.

However, there was one small hiccup: JPJ had run out of stock for the physical driving licence cards, so we couldn't get printed copies. We were advised to call again in a month's time to check whether new stock had arrived.

In the meantime, we can access our renewed driving licence details, road tax information, summonses, and other vehicle-related matters through the MyJPJ app.

I also had an issue with MyDigital ID on my phone, so I asked the RELA officer at JPN for help. Within 15 minutes, the problem was resolved. It turned out to be a simple matter of going into my phone settings and enabling Automatic Date and Time.

With MyDigital ID working again, I can now access the MyJPJ app on my phone. Previously, I couldn't use it because MyDigital ID kept showing an error.

All in all, we took less than two hours to settle our MyKad and driving licence matters at UTC Ipoh. I was genuinely impressed by the efficiency and helpfulness of both the UTC and RELA staff.

We were already home before 10.30am. Dad and Mum then continued with their day by heading to the bank to settle some banking matters.

A little tip if you're driving to UTC Ipoh: Parking fees are paid by scanning the QR code printed on the pillars in the car park. Simply scan the code, select your preferred payment method and pay. It's pretty straightforward! 

You can watch our video on my Facebook Page.


Another 10/10 Sale Haul Arrived!

More of my 10/10 Sale haul has arrived! 

One of my favourite purchases from this haul is this pretty lilac mesh Zumba skort. The material is ultra-soft, and I love how comfortable it is!

The inner shorts don't dig into my down under like some shorts do, and the waistband is super comfy too. No tight elastic digging into my waist and leaving those annoying indentation marks. Comfort is everything, especially when I'm dancing and exercising!

This skort was shipped from overseas, but it took less than a week to arrive. That's pretty fast, isn't it?

For your reference, I am 42kg, waist is 66cm. I ordered a size M, which is actually a little big on me, but I prefer it this way. I like my workout clothes to be comfortable rather than clingy. 😁

Psst, psst! The Month-End Sale will be here in less than 10 days, and guess who's already busy browsing her shopping cart? 🙈😂

Some things never change. This 53-year-old auntie is still easily excited by a good sale! 🛍️

I got this pretty lilac mesh skort from Shopee here >>https://s.shopee.com.my/5fpW99P9Ns




Tuesday, October 13, 2026

A Typical Day with My Octogenarian Parents

Yesterday evening, Dad wanted to steam fish for dinner. But when he opened the freezer, he discovered that we had run out of fish. 😅 So, off we went to Chong Recipe chap fan instead.

This is our favourite chap fan restaurant because there are more than 50 dishes to choose from daily! It’s air-conditioned, clean, and comes with free delicious soup, tea, water and even tissue. Best of all, dinner for the three of us cost only RM28, including a big piece of fried mackerel. Not bad at all, right? 😁

For lunch today, we headed to our favourite Cheung Kee Porridge, an air-conditioned restaurant. Mum’s ultra-sensitive stomach has been acting up recently, so she needs to stick to a clean, gentle and soft diet for now.

Earlier in the morning, we had to visit the Maxis shop at Kinta City to settle some payment issues for Mum. We ended up spending almost TWO HOURS there 😵‍💫

Thankfully, the Malay man who attended to Mum was very patient and helpful. Mum was so appreciative that she asked Dad to buy him a coffee as a small gesture of thanks. So Dad went to the nearby ZUS Coffee kiosk and bought him a coffee costing over RM11. Such a simple but thoughtful way of showing appreciation. ❤️

And that is a typical day in the life of a 53-year-old auntie living with her parents in their 80s.

Life is mostly made up of simple, ordinary things. Sometimes it’s a little boring, sometimes it comes with nerve-wracking, heart-attack-inducing moments, but most of the time, it’s quite peaceful. 😂

No glam adventures, no exciting nightlife. Just chap fan, porridge, occasional dining out, errands, ageing parents and the occasional unexpected drama. 

Honestly, I guess there’s a certain comfort in this kind of simple life too.

Dinner at Resipi Chong, Ipoh Garden



Lunch at Cheung Kee Porridge, Medan Ipoh, Ipoh Garden East. RM31 for the chicken thigh porridge, fish porridge, shrimp wantons and fried crullers. 




Soon-to-Be 54, But Still Loving My Bright Colour

Another parcel from the 10/10 Sale trickled in today. Yayyy! So happy! 🥳📦

This time, it's my new gym wear from Shopee — a pleated skort in violet and a cross-back spaghetti-strap top with an attached bra. I absolutely love the beautiful contrast between the colours! 💜🩷

I love bright colours. My life is pretty dull as it is, so I need some bright colours to jazz things up a little,  😂🌈

Not bad for a soon-to-be 54-year-old auntie, righttttt? 😜💪🏻

Okay, time to head out for my brisk walk soon! I think it stopped raining.

It's been so hazy in Ipoh, and it's been raining almost every evening for the past two weeks. I've missed my forest-bathing therapy for so many days! 🌳🍃 Hopefully, the weather will improve soon so I can get my much-needed dose of nature again.

Have a colourful and fabulous day, peeps! 🥰

 Shop my gym wear here:

👚 Top: https://s.shopee.com.my/8AWmCJtKBE

🩳 Skort: https://s.shopee.com.my/4VdTpXORcD




Sunday, October 11, 2026

Pressure-Cooked 12345 Pork Ribs – Easy, Yummy & No-Fuss!

One of the easiest and yummiest pork rib recipes is 12345 Pork Ribs! The best part? This easy version requires no frying and creates hardly any mess. Just throw everything into the pressure cooker and let it do its magic. Perfect for lazy days or when you don't feel like spending too much time in the kitchen! 

Why is it called 12345 Pork Ribs?

Because the sauce uses five simple measurements:

🥄 1 tablespoon Shaoxing wine (Chinese cooking wine)

🥄 2 tablespoons light soy sauce

🥄 3 tablespoons Chinese black vinegar

🥄 4 tablespoons sugar

🥄 5 tablespoons water

You can also add a few slices of ginger for extra fragrance and flavour.

I used to cook this dish very frequently back in KL when my daughters were younger. They absolutely loved it!  The meat falls off the bone too.  It's so easy that even a kitchen noob can pull it off successfully as long as you follow the recipe. 😆

You can also try this recipe with chicken or pork shoulder / pork belly.

My usual method is to lightly brown the ginger and pork first, add all the sauce ingredients, then pressure cook for 15–20 minutes. But if you're short of time or simply feeling lazy, you can skip the browning and sautéing altogether. Just dump everything into the pressure cooker and you're good to go!

Recently, I introduced this recipe to my dad, and he's already cooked it twice. Everyone loves it! ❤️ Dad also reduced the amount of sugar to suit our taste.

For this batch, we used around 680–700g of pork ribs.

Simple ingredients, minimal fuss and a delicious dish that the whole family enjoys. This is definitely one of those recipes worth keeping! 

You can watch the video of how this dish was prepared on my Facebook page.

Pressure-cooked pork ribs are always tender and falls off the bone. Only 20 minutes in the PPC.




My parents had steamed rice with blue pea flowers and I had steamed sweet potato - only one and the other one for breakfast the next day.




Saturday, October 10, 2026

My TikTok Shop Shopping Adventure: From 0.1 Sen Wet Wipes to Dettol Washing Machine Cleaner

I recently started shopping on TikTok! In case you didn't know, I have two TikTok accounts, and that's where I started noticing all the TikTok Shop ads popping up in my feed.

I ignored those videos for the longest time until I spotted a 0.1 sen deal for 5 packs of large kitchen wipes. Wah, 0.1 sen only! So I thought, okay lah, even if I got scammed, it's practically free mah! 😂

Guess what? The wet wipes arrived just two days later, and they were actually of good quality! 😲

That got me curious, so I started watching more product videos and browsing the TikTok Shop. Before I knew it, I was buying king-size bedsheets for less than RM20. Not once, not twice, but THREE times! LOL! 🤣

Then I came across a fantastic deal for Dettol Washing Machine Cleaner. I had bought a bottle from Shopee for RM15 not too long ago. But on TikTok Shop, I spotted a deal for 3 bottles at just RM24. Wah, that's only RM8 per bottle! Almost half the price I paid previously. How could I resist? Into my shopping cart it went! 🛒

So, what's my verdict on the Dettol Washing Machine Cleaner?

I'm pretty impressed with it! My washing machine smelled fresh and lemony after cleaning, unlike the washing machine cleaning tablets someone gave us previously, which left our washer smelling awful for an entire week. 😅

The drum looked sparkling clean, and even the rubber seal around the door looked cleaner. My laundry also came out smelling fresh and lemony.

Here's how I used it: I poured the cleaner into the detergent drawer and applied some to the crevices around the door seal and drum. I also used a few wet wipes with the cleaner to wipe away some of the black, mouldy-looking stains on the rubber seal. Most of the black stains came off but not all - those are permanent moldy stains.

Of course, this is just my personal experience, but so far, I'm happy with the results!

If you'd like to check out the deal I found, here's the link to the TikTok Shop:

The deal is still at RM24+ for 3 bottles because of the 10/10 Sale.

Now that I've discovered TikTok Shop, I think my wallet needs to be on high alert during every sale! First it was 0.1 sen wet wipes, then bedsheets, and now cleaning products. What's next? 😁













 

My 10/10 Sale Haul Is Done!

I'm officially done with my 10/10 Sale shopping for now! 😂 Now comes the fun part — waiting for all my shopping loot to trickle in, one parcel at a time. 📦📦📦
Here's what I bought during this sale:
🧼 Dettol washing machine cleaner from TikTok
🛏️ Bed sheet from TikTok
💪 Gym wear from Lazada & Shopee
🌼 Chrysanthemum buds and peppermint leaves from Shopee
🍵 Longjing green tea leaves from Lazada
🍎 Apple cider vinegar from Lazada
🧻 Kitchen wipes from Shopee
🥜 1kg of groundnuts from Shopee
🌰 Cashews, chickpeas and almonds from Shopee
☕ Decaf coffee from Shopee
🍃 Lakanto and Saraya self-foaming hand wash from Lazada
And that's about it for now! My wallet deserves a little breather, so I'm putting my shopping fingers on standby until the month-end sale. 🤣
The only thing already making me happy is my new chic gym top, which arrived today! 😍 It looks so nice, and I can't wait to wear it to Zumba soon. The best part? I got it at a steal on Lazada! 🛍️💃
Now, let's see how long I can resist shopping before the next sale rolls around. 😂🙈
P.S. I'll probably be stocking up on my walnuts during the month-end sale. A girl's gotta have her healthy snacks, right? 🥜❤️

For reference, it's a size L, a bit loose on my 42kg frame, but I prefer it this way as I don't like dumpling tight bajus sticking to my skin 😁