Monday, April 30, 2007
Sunday, April 29, 2007
I will never forget that particular morning in December 2000 at the office of my first gynae. After experiencing very irregular periods, spotting, unexplained weight gain, acne on my face and moodiness for a few months, I just knew there was something really wrong with me. That prompted me to drag my feet to the gynae's office. After a scan of my ovaries, Dr F told me that I had Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome or PCOS in short. When I heard that diagnosis, I was really stunned and horrified. What the heck is that disease? Dr F then gave a brief explanation of this disorder and drew out a step by step treatment plan. Wah, wah, wah, wait a minute, what is this laser treatment to 'drill' holes in my ovaries and did you just say PCOS will cause infertility? You are saying I can't conceive? I just couldn't absorb so much info in a mere 20 mins or so in the clinic. So I went home in a daze and for the next few days, weeks, months and 2 years or so, there I was, surfing the net to study my 'disease' and how I can treat it. Dr F told me that I can't cure the disorder but can only treat the symptoms. The symptoms are unexplained weight gain, obesity, acne, hirtuism (excessive hair) and also loss of hair, irregular periods, insulin resistant, infertility, among others. PCOS is actually a hormonal imbalance disorder.
Long sob story cut short and fast forward a bit ok...... in summary this is what I had gone through :
Consulted 6 gynaes in 3 years.
Took 3 cycles of Clomid only to suffer 1 miscarriage which was the saddest day in my life.
Went thru Hysterosalpingogram or HSG which was by far the most painful procedure in my life.
Went thru Ovarian Drilling keyhole surgery so that my 'eggs can be released from my ovaries' .
Went thru years of emotional roller coaster, tears, fears, worries and pain.
Had uncountable number of trips to my gynaes' office.
Burnt a big hole in my pocket for treatments and sustaining both pregnancies.
Went thru 1 cycle of Intrauterine (IUI) fertility treatment.
Went thru an extremely difficult and high risk pregnancy when carrying Alycia. Was on semi bed-rest for 5 months when carrying Alycia as I had symptoms of pre-term labour. Had spotting and threatened miscarriage when carrying Alycia and Sherilyn.
Never had so many jabs in my entire life before. I had more than 50 jabs in a period of less than 3 years.
Whenever my gals made me feel like giving up being a SAHM, I would sit back and think what I had gone thru to have them. When my gynaes told me that it wasn't only me with problems but DH also had very poor little swimmers, I had almost given up hope of ever having my own babies. It was really double whammy. Even on the day of my IUI, my gynae had put on a 'no hope' look on his face and told me that DH had very poor little swimmers, only 3% was good. But God really does answer prayers you know, not only 1 miracle happened to me, but 2 in a span of less than 2 years.
Everytime when I think back on how much I had wanted Alycia, how anxious and worried I was for 10 months, the sleepless nites I had before each consultation with my gynae, I would hug Alycia tightly and tell her that she's mummy's little 'precious baby', the term gynaes use to describe hard-to-get babies.
Each time Alycia made me mad and boiling with anger, I'd think back what I'd gone thru just to have her and my anger slowly dissipates, like I had just gotten an antidote shot in my arm. The day I gave birth to Alycia was the happiest day of my life which no word can describe.
So to all mommies out there, every baby is indeed a miracle and a gift from God. Ain't we just so lucky to have our own kids? Love and appreciate them more coz there are many women out there who are desperate and would do anything, just anything just so to have a baby of their own. Go give your lil' ones a big hug tonite and say "mommy loves you very much" and thank God for them.
This is how we typically spend our Sundays. How I wish everyday is a Sunday... in my dreams lar.
Saturday, April 28, 2007
Super rebellious and disobedient. When talked to nicely, will not listen. Will only listen when I flash out the cane.
Super vain-pot. Loves to choose her own clothes each time she's being changed. Refuses to wear anything that mommy or maid have chosen for her. A few nights ago, she insisted in wearing her favourite sleeveless dress to sleep. She cried and kicked till she almost puked when my maid put on her pyjamas for her. Thankfully, daddy came home in the nick of time to play hide-and-seek with her to placate her, otherwise my maid and I gotta clean up puke again.
Very manipulative. If she can't get what she wishes for, will cry, kick and roll on the floor till she vomits. When distraction doesn't work on her, I normally ignore her and let her cry her eyes out. Normally after a 15 - 20 mins tantrum outburst, she will 'self heal' and be herself again, laughing and playing with her sister.
Likes to whine for no reason. Sounds of whinning from my gals drive me bonkers.
Refuses to sit still when I read to her. She used to love me reading to her. She's more of a Glenn Doman baby than Alycia but lately, displayed very little interest in reading or looking at my flashcards. So I reduce the frequency of these reading sessions and let her enjoy her TT phase. I know she will mellow down when she's nearing 3 yo, just like Alycia.
So how do you handle a kid with a TT behaviour?
Patience, power of distraction and some humour.... these are the virtues to subdue a kid with TT behaviour.
Do I have them? Yes, when I'm in a good mood.
That's why everyday, I pray to God to bless me with tons of patience, tolerance and wisdom to be a better mom. I hope God answers my prayer.
Me : Alycia, what letter is this? (as I point to the flash card with the letter 'A' stuck on the wall)
Aly : Big 'A'
Me : Good job. Alycia is so clever.
I then point to another flash card stuck on the door.
Me : Alycia, what number is this (as I point to the number 9 on the door)?
Aly : Number 9
Me : Very good. If you turn number 9 upside down, it becomes number 6. Alycia is so clever. Mummy is so proud of you.
I then give her a hug and wah.... Aly feels so happy and proud of her achievement. Kids.... they really love praises, words of encouragement and hugs and I think that's the best motivation a mother can ever give.
Alycia can now recognize all the letters of the alphabet (capital and small) and numbers 1-10. She can also write a few letters, numbers, draw shapes and 'stick people'. I am so proud of her.
Last nite, DH bought some cheap cheap but cute cute Winnie The Pooh stickers from the pasar malam. I should have stopped him from buying these stickers coz after their stickers craze frenzy, my maid and I spent half an hour peeling off these stickers from their clothes, from the wall and floor and had to wipe the floor with wet wipes whilst DH happily dozed off on the sofa. Seeing the gals happy makes DH happier. What to do..... be happy also lor. Sherilyn was so happy that early this morning, I heard her giggling in her sleep/dream... aawwww..... that was just so cute. She has a tendency of giggling in her sleep all the time.
Friday, April 27, 2007
Reading about the case of the KTAR female student who was almost raped in yesterday's newspapers sent chills down my spine. She could have been brutally raped and murdered like the case of Canny Ong. Whenever I read news like this, it brings back old memories of me when I was still a college student, renting a house at Jalan Ipoh. The bus-stop was quite a walking distance from my house and I had to endure 15 mins of walk one way, twice a day. I'd encountered many flashers and perverts during my daily walks and also on the mini buses and Selangor buses. My last straw was when my handbag was snatched by a motorcyclist one morning as I was walking to the bus-stop. Thankfully I wasn't really hurt, apart from a few scratches on my arm. That incident made me pack my bags and I moved somewhere else.
It is a good idea for all ladies to carry some form of self-defence gadget whenever they are walking alone. Last year, DH bought me a pocket-size pepper spray so that I can carry it with me during my daily morning jog. It can also help me ward off dogs from chasing me. When I was still working, I used to wake up at 6am every morning to jog. I used to carry a baton with me but lost the baton after the great flood which destroyed almost everything in my house last year. So to all ladies out there, please get your DH or DB (darling boyfriend) to get you a self-defence gadget now. It might help save your life.
With some ideas from the www.childbrain.org forum, I made my own books using pictures of the gals printed from my home printer and wrote stories about them. My gals love the books as the stories are all about them. I could have made more for them but because of time constraints, I have also printed out some from the childbrain forum, which my gals love too. All you need are some A4 size papers, plastic protector sheets and a plastic fastener to bind the pages as shown in the pix above.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
3 tablespoons of chocolate milk powder
6 tablespoons of organic wholemeal high protein flour OR plain flour OR soya flour
Dash of salt (optional)
1-2 tablespoons of sesame (white or black)
2 tablespoons of almond nibs
1 tablespoon of wheatgerm (optional)
Add water and stir until batter becomes smooth
Olive Lite butter or ordinary butter
After I gave birth to Alycia 3 yrs ago, I developed bad backache, resulting from the spinal block anesthetic administered during my C-section. I could only sleep on my sides and could hardly sleep on my back. My 1 month of confinement was nightmarish as I had bad breast engorgement and bad backache. When I slept on my sides, my breasts leaked out milk and hurt terribly. When I slept on my back, it hurt me too. Both ways, I just couldn't sleep. Long story cut short, I must thank my SIL who was a Malaysian sportswoman then who suggested that I exercise on a fit ball everyday to relief the backache. I took heed and voila, after days of exercising on the ball, the backpain gradually went away. I was so happy with the miraculous result that I religiously exercised on the fitball almost everyday till today.
How do you do it :
First, sit on the ball, as shown in the 1st pic. Gradually slide your body down the ball and arch your back on the ball and stay in the arched position for between 3-5 minutes everyday. It's better to place your feet next to a wall so that you will not slip.
The fitball can also be used to do sit-ups as shown in the 2nd pic. It's an excellent way to do sit-up on the ball as there is no pressure to you back. The weight of your body is supported by the ball.
The results I get from working out on this ball are superb. No more back pain and no more flabby tummy. However, consistency and discipline are needed coz if you are not consistent and only exercise as and when you feel like it, the backpain will surface again.
Disclaimer : This is not intended to be a medical advice. This article is written purely based on my own experience.
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
During my recent bout of flu and throat infection, infected to me by my 2 little gals and DH, I've decided that I will cure myself naturally and vowed not to take antibiotics again, if necessary, coz antibiotics destroy all the bacteria in my body, whether good or bad bacteria and each time I'd taken antibiotics, I'd develop Vaginal Yeast Infection, something which I really really hate. So I surfed the net to find the best remedy for my ailment and pored thru my Natural Remedy book by Readers' Digest. The result? I was completely cured WITHOUT having to visit the dr., yay! Here's what I ate :
1. Popped garlic pills 2-3 times a day.
2. Popped Echinacea pills 2 times a day.
3. Drank raw Manuka honey. Method - either mix it with lemon juice or swallow a teaspoon of the honey without any water. Do not drink water thereafter for at least 15 minutes. Manuka honey is well-known for its antibacterial properties.
4. Popped probiotics pills.
5. Drank Redoxon Zinc + Vit C effervescent
6. Popped Vit ACE
7. To alleviate pain in throat, sucked Difflam anti-inflammatory & anti-bacterial lozenges. This really helped to alleviate the pain in the throat for a few hours but I had to bear with the side effect of a slightly numb tongue.
7. Popped Nurofen caplet to reduce fever & alleviate flu symptoms.
8. Gargle salt water throughout the day.
9. Asked maid to cook me 'Sick People Soup'. Check out recipe here.
Well, this concoction worked for me. Hope it will also work for whoever who is keen to try it.
Disclaimer : This article is not intended to be a medical advice. It is purely based on my own experience.
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Of course, he also caters not-so-high-end functions. Just give him your budget, your theme, your favourite menu and he'll create an unforgetable perfect function for you. DH, Alan Yap can be contacted at mobile no. 019-266 4297.
Oh yes, yes, yes. I finally managed to download the pic. After downloading FireFox, I've succeeded, yay! PTL! Oh, btw, that's a pic of my 2 gals at my garden, trying to have a taste of flowers.
My nightmare soon began. Each time Alycia fell sick, she would passed on the bug to Sherilyn coz they eat, play and sleep together and when I wasn't around for just a few seconds, Sherilyn would conveniently drink from Aly's cup or use her eating utensils or I would catch Aly wiping some of her goo onto Sher, eewwww!. Needless to say, I also fell sick inescapably due to the loss of beauty sleep and had 2 little brats spitting at me, coughing at me, spewing phelgm and vomit at me and sleeping with me. Next in turn was DH. This went on impeccably twice a month for 4 months. DH burnt a BIG hole in his pocket to bring the gals to the paed. Each consultation cost an average of RM100, so you go calculate how much DH spent on the gal's medical bills. I really felt the pinch now coz when I was still working, all the medical bills were covered by my company. On top of the choking medical bills, DH also bought Lo Hong Kar birds' nest, 'pau sum' (some kind of expensive ginseng) and took the gals to see a Chinese Sinseh from a chinese medicine hall to have their 'pulse read' and then bought chinese herbs for the gals. I told DH that our gals are really expensive from the time before their conception (coz Aly is a product of artificial insemination) through toddlerhood. Oh, sustaining both pregnancies is another long story which I will write about later. I was just terrified of checking their temperature each time their little bodies felt warm. I was really really terrified of going through the whole sick process of them getting sick.
Recently, I read from an online friend that her DD was also in a similar situation as my gals and after she tried this product called Teviron, her DD's condition improved. It's a kind of clothing made from special material that can electrically charge ions to electrostatic energy. When I saw the price list for the clothings, my jaw almost dropped off. One medium sized singlet cost RM310 and the blankets cost more. The products have to be worn consistently all the time to gain real effects from them. When I proposed to DH to buy this item, got criticized by him pulak. He said I was so gullible as to believe in such a thing, plus there is no guarantee that it will work on the gals. He said even with a RM1k+ Sharp brand Ion Plasmacluster air purifier in the gals' room, their immune system is still so vulnerable, so how can some so-called miracle clothing help. Part of me still wants to try out this product coz I hate to see my gals gulping down so much medicine every month without fail. So should I or should I not continue to pursue this idea with DH and get him to give this product a try? Has anyone used this Teviron before?