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Showing posts with label Cass in University. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cass in University. Show all posts

Friday, July 10, 2026

What Are the Odds? Preschool Best Friends Reunited at University

When my youngest daughter was in preschool, she had a best friend named M. The two of them were inseparable and shared a love for Rainbow Loom. I remember hoping they would go to the same primary school, but fate had other plans.

As the months turned into years, we gradually lost touch with M. My daughter and I would occasionally talk about another classmate, E, a cute boy who was always protective of her. Because of Cass' health issue, I was the mum who was constantly at school—tagging along during field trips, attending concert rehearsals, and being around whenever she needed me. As a result, I got to know all of her classmates and, surprisingly, I still remember many of their names and faces.

So imagine my surprise when Cass messaged me this morning and asked, "Mum, do you remember M from preschool? We're in the same Foundation class"

I was completely stunned and instantly got goosebumps.

What are the chances that two little girls who were best friends in preschool, separated for 12 years, would end up in the very same university class? Of all the universities!

Life has a beautiful way of bringing people back together when the time is right. I hope they slowly reconnect, get to know each other again as young adults, and perhaps become the close friends they once were. ❤️

Photo below - taken in Sept 2014, Cass and M during a Mooncake festival walk around our neighborhood, organized by their preschool. Cass is in blue Hello Kitty top.




Tuesday, July 7, 2026

Cassandra's Orientation at University

Yesterday was Cass's first day of Orientation at Universiti Malaya.  She spent the whole day at the Dewan Tuanku Canselor, taking her first steps into this exciting new chapter of life.

Today will be an even longer day, with Orientation only ending at 10.30pm. The students have already received their class timetables all the way until next year.

I'm so excited for her, yet at the same time, I can't help but worry. I remember feeling exactly the same when she and her sisters started Primary 1 in a Chinese primary school (Kuen Cheng 2), doubting whether they can cope in a Chinese school. I worried again when Cass entered a Chinese Independent High School (Kuen Cheng High School), with the same doubts. Now, here I am, worrying all over again as she begins university. 

I suppose that's just what being a mum is. No matter how old our children become, a part of us will always worry about them.

My greatest wish is that Cass will be happy at UM, meet kind and genuine people, make wonderful friends, and enjoy every moment of this new journey.