Planning your wedding is a colossal task, especially if you are planning to have a fairytale-like wedding. Everyone has advice and opinion. If you were to read just half the books, web sites, etc. written in the last decade about wedding etiquette and protocol, you'd be reading and planning for months on end! Different races have different custom and traditional practice. From the altar to the wedding banquet, what to wear, what your bridesmaids should wear, who should pay for what, establishing your bridesmaids' responsibilities, among others.
Outfitting the bridesmaids comes with cost and who shells out for their attire? Is the bride responsible for purchasing all of the bridal party dresses, or do the bridesmaids buy their own dresses? What about the alteration costs—or what if one of the bridemaids doesn't have the budget for the gown? The lines can sometimes get a little blurry!
Typically, bridesmaids are expected to pay for their own dresses and accessories, as well as hair and makeup appointments and transportation to the wedding. As a bride, if you’re asking your friend to be your bridesmaid then the chances are you want them to be assisting and chaperoning you on your big day. So forking out some money for that shouldn’t be an issue. It's also a gesture of your appreciation to them for their time, help and friendship.
If the bride can afford to, it's a very thoughtful gesture for her to pay for the dress or a portion of the cost for each of her bridesmaids. These days more brides are paying for their sexy bridesmaid dresses, especially if they pick a more expensive dress for their bridesmaids to wear.
It's very important that you have a clear communication line with your bridesmaids, particularly when it comes to money. Cost is something you should talk about upfront before any purchases or decisions are made. While the bride may have a vision in mind, talking about what is reasonable, within budget and suitable for all the bridesmaids means there are fewer chances of friction when it comes to buying the dress.
You really don't have to spend a fortune on your bridesmaids' dresses. There are many top online shops that offer beautiful wedding dresses at different budgets. At Babyonlinedress, for example, you will find thousands of styles ranging from wedding dresses, bridesmaid dresses, mother of the bride dresses, flower girl dresses, special occasion dresses and wedding accessories. These dresses are sold at factory prices.
Sit down with your bridesmaids and be upfront with them on what they expect from you and vice versa.
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