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Monday, October 16, 2023

Embracing 50

Reaching the milestone of 50 is an achievement worth celebrating. It's a time to reflect on the ups and downs of life's journey and acknowledge the changes that come with age. At 50, many of us, myself included, may still feel young at heart, but our bodies often reveal the undeniable passage of time.  


1. The Mirror of Time: Physical Changes

One of the most noticeable aspects of turning 50 is the physical changes that are inevitably hard not to notice. The reflection in the mirror may reveal the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles, and for many, a gradual thinning of the hair. While I only have several strands of grey hair, I know that in time to come, I will have a head full of grey hair. I also can’t help noticing that my eyes are now not quite the same as how they used to look when I was younger.  While these changes may be seen as signs of aging, they also carry with them the wisdom and experiences of life that have shaped us.  I wish I could look twenty forever 😁


2. Aches and Pains: A New Companion

As I entered my 50s, I began to experience aches and discomfort that were once foreign to me. Perhaps it's the result of wear and tear on the body or the natural progression of aging. One specific ache that has been bothering me is a dull ache in my left hip. While it doesn't significantly disrupt my daily activities, it raises questions about its origin. Is it hormonal? Could it be related to a fibroid in my uterus that has grown bigger, thus causing me discomfort? 


To address the concerns about the ache in my hip and rule out any underlying issues, I've decided to consult my gynecologist soon. An ultrasound scan of my abdomen and pelvic area will provide insights into the possible causes of this discomfort.  I actually dread going to my gynae’s clinic as I am afraid of being told that I have something really bad brewing inside of me.  But knowing the truth is also about finding peace of mind.  And if there was really something nasty inside, at least it's still at an early stage.  The last time I did an ultrasound scan at my gynae’s clinic was in February this year for my annual medical checkup and pap smear.


3. Navigating Minor Skin Disorders

The journey through the 50s isn't just about physical discomfort and changes; it also comes with some unexpected surprises. In my case, minor skin disorders have made their appearance. In future articles, I'll delve into these skin concerns and how I have explored ways to manage them effectively.

Eczema (oozing and painful kind) behind my ears. This is something that is new to me and it is triggered by sleeping on my sides. 

Turning 50 is a significant milestone that brings with it a unique set of experiences, challenges, and rewards. While the physical changes and aches may be part of the package, they are a reminder of the fullness of life lived and the inevitable journey of aging. The decision to address these changes head-on, whether through medical consultations or personal care routines, is an empowering step on the journey of embracing 50.


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