Can Any Employer Tolerate This Species Of Maid?

Other than being plain slow, I discovered that my maid loves to be a nosey parker and phat here and there when she does her work. Yesterday when I asked her to wipe the kids' toys, she sat on the floor playing with the gals' toys and reading their books! To someone from an ulu kampung (remote area with very little civilization), I think she has never seen such high tech toys that emit sounds and voices or interesting books. She was so engrossed reading the books that she did not even notice me staring at her! Yesterday, hubby brought home a liondance head for the girls. This morning, whilst I was busy preparing Alycia for school, she was at the living room playing with the liondance head!!! My mum saw it and asked her what she was doing. She just gave my mum her usual silly smile but I reprimanded her.

There was a pipe burst outside our house yesterday and water supply was cut off the entire day. When the water finally came back, there were lots of things to be washed and done. There were dirty pots and pans in the wet kitchen and loads of laundry to be washed. Water was also not boiled. Thinking that my maid will be very busy doing these chores, I went upstairs to help wash the 2 bathrooms. When I was done and came down, I saw my maid sitting on the floor watching my mum play with the gals. I was fuming mad and could feel my hot blood shoot up to my face and head. I gave her a piece of my mind telling her how could she have just sat there and relax whilst me being heavily pregnant got to wash 2 bathrooms upstairs. I bet no employer could take this kinda nonsense.

Homegrown Starfruits

These are some very juicy and sweet homegrown, pesticide-free starfruits given to me by mamapumpkin all the way from Kota Bahru. They are grown by her parents-in-law in their large 'home orchard'. Yes, her PILs have a garden so large with so many fruit trees and plants that it does look like an orchard. It was so thoughtful of mamapumpkin to think of me and to bring these juicy organic starfruits for me all the way from KB. Thanks Patsy!

Memories Of My Previous Job

It’s really not easy to be a SAHM. It’s a round-the-clock job and I don’t get any annual leave, no rest, no medical leave even when my body is hot enough to make half-boiled egg under my arm pit, no bonus and no salary increment. Having said that, I still have no regrets being a SAHM as this is exactly what I had wanted to do when I was still in the crazy corporate world. Every now and then, I do miss my previous job at my old office. If you’ve been following my blog, I did mention before that the company that I once worked in, the office is facing a beautiful golf course, a huge landscaped lake and some mansions behind some hills. The scenery from the penthouse of my office is almost as beautiful as Branson Missouri and each time I feel stressed out, I would walk to the windows and look down at the lake. That’s my favorite past time each time I was stressed out – to look at the fish swim in the lake and watch golfers play golf at one of the most expensive golf courses in our country. When I am stressed out with my kids now, I just sit in front of my computer and blog my stress away!

New HDMI Splitters

The DVD player and HDMI splitter in my bedroom are spoilt. I just found out that my maid has been using a wet cloth to wipe electrical items everyday despite me telling her not to. Hubby had to bring the DVD player from his office for our bedroom so that the kids can watch their DVDs in our bedroom when I take my shower every night. He also has to buy a couple of new HDMI splitters - one unit to be placed upstairs in our bedroom and one downstairs in the living room. I better make sure I am around to supervise my maid the next time she wipes the electrical items in my house.

Alycia and Sherilyn's New Play Mate

On Monday, Barb (chumsyashley) and her family visited us. The moment Ashley got down from the car, I could already hear her yakking away excitedly. When she saw Alycia and Sherilyn, she got so excited. I was really impressed with this little Miss Social Butterfly. She wasn't shy or scared at all, though she has never met her 2 new found friends. Ashley kept getting near Alycia and Sherilyn and touched them to try to make friends with them. Sherilyn who has just woken up from her nap was a tad shy and didn't want to play with Ashley.




Barb was so thoughtful to have brought gifts for Alycia and Sherilyn and a bag of CNY goodies to 'pai nin' with me. Thanks Barb for all the gifts. You should bring Ashley over more often. I am sure Ashley will love jumping on our huge trampoline and cycling on Aly and Sher's tricycle. We can also go to the nearby playground.

Now You See My TV, Now You Don't

I have a 30-inch TV in my bedroom, right at the foot of our king-size bed. Some of my friends who are into feng shui have advised me not to place a TV in front of a bed but if I really want to have it, then it is good to cover the TV screen with a thick piece of cloth. In feng shui, it is not advisable to place a mirror or any reflective screens in front of the bed. I have seen some really cool foot of bed tv lifts for the bedroom. With a touch of a button, a sleek plasma TV appears and disappears from the foot of the bed into a plug n' play, infra-red control! The TV will be concealed inside the console when not in use. I have never seen anything like this before. You should really check this cool item out!

3D Ultrasound Scan

That's the 3D ultrasound scan of my baby at 29 weeks+. Read more about this here.

More Blood Boiling Moments

This morning, I gave instructions to my maid to boil sweet corn, carrot and chicken soup. I told her to keep an eye on the pot of soup from time to time and to make sure that the flame is not too big, else the soup will seep out from the pot. I was also checking the pot of soup myself for a while. Later I went up to have my shower and to get ready to go to my Ob&G's office for my 30th week check-up. When I came down and checked the pot of soup, I was boiling to see the pot of boiling soup without anymore soup inside. My forgetful maid has forgotten to check the pot of soup and there's no more water inside the pot! What made me really angry was that she was eating her lunch in the wet kitchen next to the boiling pot of soup, yet she can forget all about it.

I have been telling myself to be patient with her but the things that she does, her carelessness and absent-mindedness really wear my patience thin. How can she forget that there's a pot of soup boiling in the wet kitchen? And it's quite an expensive pot of soup as I've put one whole chicken inside with organic sweet corns. I told my maid off and reminded her once again not to be so forgetful. I really felt like a nagging old lady having to say "please don't be so forgetful" throughout the day. I then added some water into the pot and boiled the soup again. The soup is quite tasteless now, what a waste! Tomorrow, I will teach her to boil soup using the crockpot instead.

Cute Disney Trinkets

These are some of the cute and funky trinkets and hair accessories from Hong Kong Disneyland which koo mah bought for the gals recently. Alycia and Sherilyn are really lucky that they have koo mahs who dote on them and pamper them with lovely trinkets, clothes, accessories and biscuits from overseas (Hong Kong and New Zealand) all the time.

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Amazing Portable Reading Device

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More Bizarre Things That My Cambodian Maid Does

I can't believe what I saw just a moment ago when I went to the wet kitchen. My maid who was eating her lunch at the wet kitchen threw all the pork rib bones on the kitchen floor! I was shocked to see that, she must have treated this place like her own kampung.... gosh! When I asked her why she threw the bones on the floor, she just gave me her usual silly smile and said "later sweep". I told her not just sweep the floor, she has to wash it, otherwise the cockroaches, rats and ants will come. I just can't believe this lady!

Smart Alec

Sherilyn seems to have lots of bright ideas. The other day, she poured all her Lego blocks on her table. Just before nap time, I told her to keep her toys and to put the Lego blocks back into where they should belong. I thought she would bring the Lego blocks one by one or two by two to keep them in the box. I was surprised when she pushed her table to the Lego box and swept all the blocks into the box and within seconds, she finished keeping the blocks. She's a young smart alec, isn't she?

Third Day Of CNY

Today, we spent almost the whole day at Mid Valley Megamall. After lunch at Little Vietnam Restaurant, my maid and hubby accompanied Alycia & Sherilyn at MegaKidz whilst I went for some retail therapy. It felt really good to be able to shop and I bought some clothes for the gals and some for myself. I don't shop for clothes at maternity boutiques anymore. Instead I have been shopping for most of my clothes from this outlet called Harajuku at Jaya Jusco. Most of the clothes from Harajuku are imported from Korea and Japan. They are very stylish and inexpensive too. Luckily the vogue now is loose and long tops, baby doll dresses and tights (with elastic waistbands) and being a size XS, I can easily fit into most of the loose apparel at Harajuku. I can even recycle these clothes after I have given birth as these clothing are free size and I have not really ballooned up, save for my tummy.

Tonight, we will have dinner at a Chinese restaurant near out house with hubby's aunty. How did you spend your Chor Sam (3rd day of CNY)?

Teppanyaki Ice-Cream

Read more about this teppanyaki ice-cream in my other blog.

We Need A Roof Box For Our MPV

I wonder how some families with more than 2 kids travel in a regular 5-seater car. Each time we travel back to our hometown, our 7-seater MPV will be packed to the brim with passengers and our belongings. I wonder how we are going to place a third baby car seat when our third baby arrives. I guess after placing a third baby car seat in the MPV, hubby would have to buy a cubic roof box to store our luggage and fix a van rack on the roof of his MPV. In fact, I’ve always been asking him to get a cubic roof box but he always tells me that it is very costly. I’m going to tell him that he can get these truck accessories at discount prices at buyautotruckaccessories.com. I think these accessories would make our MPV look more sporty.

Have You Been Drinking And Gambling Excessively This CNY?

I see many of my friends take the opportunity to indulge themselves in boozing, gambling and just be merry for 15 days straight during Chinese New Year. Thank God my hubby doesn’t like any of these stuff and even if he partakes in them, it is merely to entertain his friends. It’s alright to partake in these activities once in a while moderately as long as they do not become a part of your lifestyle and they do not interfere with your life and affect your family. Any activity that becomes excessive eventually turns into an addiction. When you are addicted to something especially drinking, gambling and drugs, they ruin not only your life but that of your loved ones and the only way to break free from these addiction is to get addiction treatment professionally. I hope you have not been drinking and gambling excessively this Chinese New Year, have you?

Cats and Dogs

I hate it whenever Alycia and Sherilyn quarel or fight over something but sometimes, I find it really hilarious, to see how they fight and hear the things they say to each other. Sherilyn can really make me burst out laughing when this fighter cock screams out words to defend herself while she pouts and scrunches up her lips in anger and folding her arms tightly to her chest. She's really a cili padi and a tough cookie who can never be bullied by anyone.

Bizarre Things That My Cambodian Maid Does

Maybe I am not used to her culture but my Cambodian maid does very bizarre things. Just a moment ago, I heard the sound of water flowing out from the tap from the bathroom. I went to the bathroom and found my maid squatting outside the bathroom with the shower and washing her hair. I asked her what she's doing and she told me she had headache and felt hot. I then asked if she wanted pain killer for her headache and she said no. I asked her if she had fever and she replied no. After drying her hair, she went upstairs to continue with her work. Strange isn't it?

She also has a habit of taking her bath very late at night. I've always asked her to take her bath earlier but she insists that she only wants to bathe just before she goes to bed, which is at around 11pm or sometimes later if we go out.

My previous maid has a special pull-out table in the kitchen for her to eat her meals. However, our Cambodian maid prefers to eat at the wet kitchen, which is outside our dry kitchen. She prefers to sit on a stool and eat her meals there. I have since asked her to sit at our dining table so that she can eat whilst she feeds Sherilyn. She also doesn't mind eating her food straight from the fridge. The other day, I had bought her a packet of nasi lemak with chicken curry. She kept it in the fridge and hours later, ate it without reheating it. I have thought her how to use the microwave but maybe she's too lazy or hungry to reheat her food and ate it straight from the fridge.

She always looks as if she's really really famished and can really eat anything I give her in a blink of an eye. The other day, I had steamed a really huge 'lin koa' and bought a packet of grated coconut to eat with it. I could only eat a few spoonfuls and gave the rest of the 'lin koa' to her. I thought she would take days to finish it. I was shocked when I found out that she had gobbled the entire 'lin koa' within an hour. I wonder if she felt uncomfortable after eating such a sweet and sticky cake with one whole packet of grated coconut! I really think this Cambodian maid is bizarre .

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